Bedtime

[Mariecurie2]

So today I've had a hard day with my 15 month old. She's been so irritable all day, she's wanting to be held all day but when I pick her up she then wants to get down. I feel like I'm not doing anything right today. Anyway towards bedtime she was getting more upset because she was tired, I tried to hold out until daddy got home but I just couldn't so I put her to bed. Daddy's come home passed off at me and sad that he hadn't seen her today. I now feel both awful and angry. What am I supposed to do here 😕

Say exactly what you said here, that she was shattered and needed to sleep and as a baby her physical needs come first.

You put your baby first.

You tell your husband to grow up and start putting his child's needs first.

For goodness sake tell him he needs to grow up! If he's that desperate to see her, suggest he can do the morning shift and give you a lie in since you had a hard day today.