Sons grandfather taking me to court

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Hello,
So I'm currently in a refuge due to my sons father, we have been going through family court proceedings for a few months now and a non molestration was accepted and now going through child visitation proceedings. Contact between my son and his father is going to be going ahead but when judges decided what's the best approach. My son is 1 year old.

However my ex partners father has just applied for court also to try and take me som. He's accusing me of child abuse ans neglect. His concerns are that he has not seen my child for 10 weeks and he don't know where I am. My sons father and grandfather live together and have definitely teamed up now to try and get my son. The grandfather has said I neglected my son since birth and I did cocaine on a daily basis. This is all lies. They would all tell me how much of a good mother I am.

Social services even said they had no concerns over me. I'm just so worried now because the grandfather is trying to take me son away from me. I now need another CAFCASS interview even tho I'm already going through the proocedings of this.

Any advice please??? I'm so scared

Hello, firstly I'm so sorry your going through this!

This was me a a year ago, I don't have much advice except get everything in order and make sure you understand everything.

Mine ended with 3 hours for paternal grandparent every two weeks, which seems to be the majority of these cases? I absolutely hate it but cannot change it unfortunately. But ex isn't involved with the child so not sure if that could affect anything?

Best of luck💐💐

Has this been posted before?

Thankyou so much! He's due to see my son when my sons father does. But he's now dragging me through court himself to be spiteful

Yes on a different thread . Just need advice im so worried

Not sure why I can't see that thread.

But I seem to think that on it you said you've snorted coke since your child was born. Is that wrong?

Never in my child's care, on a night out yes I will be honest

Argh, not good, as it can affect your mental state after you've come down off it. Best course of action is to never, ever do it again, and agree to drug testing.