DH and I have a 18mo DD together. He loves his hobby (football) and is away at least twice a week in the evening playing etc. I always support this. He always says i need to get a hobby - so recently have joined a running club. Ive really enjoyed having one evening a week myself doing something for me. He always seems a bit moody the evening of my club. The club is entering a race far away from our home which would involve me staying for 2 nights. He is working that weekend but the place is quite close to my parents and they would be willing to babysit. I was really excited about the event, however he has had a total hissy fit about it and is adamant DD shouldnt be away from him for that long. Im so upset i want to go and he is making me feel really selfish, and says everyone would agree that it is excessive. AIBU?