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Help need advice.

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Emmamoo89 · 17/03/2023 12:29

NC because I know few people on here. Just a rant really. Recently found out I'm pregnant. Early days. Not getting excited yet as I've had 2 chemicals. I'm obviously over the moon but there's one thing that is getting to me. I've Recently come off maternity and only been back just over a month. I'm worried what my Co workers are going to think. Well 2 of them won't mind but still worries me. I just don't know what to do. I believe everything happens for a reason. I really don't want to terminate. I know for some it does happen quickly to fall pregnant after maternity. Some come back pregnant. My heads a mess.

Thanks for reading if you get this far.

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Emmamoo89 · 17/03/2023 12:30

NC failed oh well 🤣

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Emmamoo89 · 17/03/2023 13:40

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Emmamoo89 · 17/03/2023 17:10

Anyone?

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Rella357 · 17/03/2023 18:41

A job is replaceable, a family is not. They will have to simply get over it!

Pegsmum · 17/03/2023 18:44

Congratulations! It doesn’t matter what your co workers think, it matters what you think.

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Emmamoo89 · 17/03/2023 18:59

Rella357 · 17/03/2023 18:41

A job is replaceable, a family is not. They will have to simply get over it!

That is true 😊 thank you

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Emmamoo89 · 17/03/2023 19:00

Pegsmum · 17/03/2023 18:44

Congratulations! It doesn’t matter what your co workers think, it matters what you think.

Thank you! Yes I agree. I'm 34 this year I'd rather have my second a decent age. Stopping at 2 so they don't need to worry.

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Tiredmummaoftwo · 17/03/2023 19:01

Don't even waste two minutes caring about what they think. Chances are you'll never know and if you do and it's negative, again, who cares it's just coming from a place of jealousy. It doesn't affect your life. A termination will.

Tiredmummaoftwo · 17/03/2023 19:02

Oh and congratulations! X

Havehope21 · 17/03/2023 19:17

Huge congratulations - as others have said, your job is replaceable, a family is not. Your child is the one you will be with for years to come, not the job or even the colleagues. Anyone who thinks ill of someone for having a child isn't a friend of yours.

Purple89 · 17/03/2023 19:54

Congratulations!!

If they are decent people, they will be happy for you.

Don't give this another minute's thought, it isn't worth your time.

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Emmamoo89 · 17/03/2023 21:25

Tiredmummaoftwo · 17/03/2023 19:01

Don't even waste two minutes caring about what they think. Chances are you'll never know and if you do and it's negative, again, who cares it's just coming from a place of jealousy. It doesn't affect your life. A termination will.

I'll try not to! I know a couple of them will be happy for me. I'm probably overthinking it. Its just I feel bad. It's a small bakery and there's only 5 of us. And they've all just started getting holidays and days off and I'll feel bad when I have to go off again.

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Emmamoo89 · 17/03/2023 21:25

Tiredmummaoftwo · 17/03/2023 19:02

Oh and congratulations! X

Thank you! X

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Emmamoo89 · 17/03/2023 21:26

Havehope21 · 17/03/2023 19:17

Huge congratulations - as others have said, your job is replaceable, a family is not. Your child is the one you will be with for years to come, not the job or even the colleagues. Anyone who thinks ill of someone for having a child isn't a friend of yours.

Thank you so much. It really is. I'm sure they'll be able to find someone to cover for me. I know couple of them will be happy for me. I shouldn't really care what the others think. A family is more important x

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Emmamoo89 · 17/03/2023 21:27

Purple89 · 17/03/2023 19:54

Congratulations!!

If they are decent people, they will be happy for you.

Don't give this another minute's thought, it isn't worth your time.

Thank you! I know I'm just a worrier. I'll try not to x

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