I have a 1 year old little girl, her dad has had her every weekend since birth. A couple of months ago he started leaving her with his mum instead in a Saturday night sometimes or not having her at all.
We recently moved an hour and half away, he worked out the petrol costs to come pick her up which was the same amount as his csa payments, so I've told him to keep that to use for petrol to come see her... then he said he works on call every weekend (this wasn't an issue before) so he can't come. Now he's just taken to not responding. It's been 3 weeks since he saw her and 2 weeks since he's replied to any of my messages...not even asked how she is. His mum asks all the time aswell as his sister in law and we've worked things out between the 3 of us so she can go see and spend time with his family who are lovely. He's just not interested though :( has anyone dealt with this? Shall I just stop trying?