My five year old DD lashes out at me, her sister and DH when told no or something else she doesn't like.
She can deliberately go out of her way to thump her sister sometimes for no "reason".
She is getting on well in reception so no issues there.
We have tried consequences but nothing works - I have tried to encourage good behaviour with the carrot of a ballet outfit for example.
She can be very very sweet and often she plays beautifully with her sister but the acts of violence are frequent.
Can anyone help?