Is your second child completely different

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I'm desperate to have another child. Husband, money, house, job all secure but my one worry is will I cope.

My child is very easy going, barely cries, always laughing, goes to bed happily, sleeps all night, sociable and just verbally no trouble.

Has anyone had a l other child that's similar? Everyone I have spoke to IRL keeps saying that I won't have another easy baby. My main worry is having a baby who sleeps and one who doesn't.

Well yes they will most likely be different. You either get on board with that or stick at one.

DD1 was such an easy baby, rarely cried, slept like a dream.

DD2 cried non stop for three months after she was born and would only sleep on me (when she did actually sleep.)

Fast forward 16 years.

DD1 has ASD, ADHD, anxiety and depression. Also recently came out as transgender male. Is a fantastic human being and makes us so proud but struggles with so many aspects of life.

DD2 is funny, hard working, shy and super smart.

You CANNOT predict what life will throw at you. Just be prepared to go with the flow.