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I'm a paediatric speech and language therapist... AMA!

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 18:30

12 years NHS experience working with children aged 18 months to 18 years.

Acutely aware that actually being able to speak to an NHS therapist these days is getting harder and harder.

Happy to answer anything I feel able to - I've worked with most areas of need over the years, but if not in my remit I'll say I'm not sure 😊 Maybe someone else who has more experience will be able to answer instead.

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 03/02/2023 15:56

nettytree · 02/02/2023 14:51

No questions. But as a mum with a boy who never spoke til 5, he attended a mainstream school with a speech unit attached. He is now expected to gain top grades in his GCSEs. Thank you for all your hard work and dedication in your work.

Lovely to hear, thank you 😊

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TallulahBetty · 03/02/2023 16:05

What's your experiences of Selective Mustism?

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 03/02/2023 16:24

TallulahBetty · 03/02/2023 16:05

What's your experiences of Selective Mustism?

That's a very broad question I'm afraid - what do you mean? I always have a number of children with SM on my caseload at any given time.

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justcouldntthinkofausername · 03/02/2023 20:37

Can anyone else see my posts? 🤔

GordonGarden · 03/02/2023 21:27

@justcouldntthinkofausername, OP replied to your post the day after you posted it! :)

I'm a paediatric speech and language therapist... AMA!
justcouldntthinkofausername · 03/02/2023 22:22

GordonGarden · 03/02/2023 21:27

@justcouldntthinkofausername, OP replied to your post the day after you posted it! :)

My bad. I do apologise OP. I have been checking numerous times throughout the days and didn't see a response until @GordonGarden has put this snapshot in the thread, I don't know how I missed it! Sorry

Thank you for your reply I'll try holding off focusing on the flash cards a bit, I thought they were a simple way to teach him short easy words.

I do hope he comes on with his speech though soon 🙏🏻

Thank you

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 04/02/2023 13:36

justcouldntthinkofausername · 03/02/2023 22:22

My bad. I do apologise OP. I have been checking numerous times throughout the days and didn't see a response until @GordonGarden has put this snapshot in the thread, I don't know how I missed it! Sorry

Thank you for your reply I'll try holding off focusing on the flash cards a bit, I thought they were a simple way to teach him short easy words.

I do hope he comes on with his speech though soon 🙏🏻

Thank you

There's lots of evidence that shows that the best way for a child to learn language is through natural social communication opportunities with a caregiver who is in tune with their interests and communicative attempts. I can't think of anything less natural and social than flashcards (or apps, TV shows etc.) Anything that creates a 'testing' dynamic which puts pressure on the child has been found to actually have a negative impact on communication development. Hope that helps 😊

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 04/02/2023 13:40

Rebootnecessary · 02/02/2023 14:55

My dd is interested in a career in SLT and is currently looking for jobs as an SLT Assistant. Do you need an assistant.....?! Or any tips on entering the career? She already has a degree in English Language and her dissertation was relevant to SLT.

To get onto a postgraduate programme you need relevant experience via a job in a related field. Most people on the course had worked for at least a year (most longer) after uni as a SaLT assistant, teaching assistant, care worker (elderly/disabled) etc. The courses are very competitive and most will have this level of experience. She'll need to show evidence that she's worked with SLTs and/or people with communication needs, and has a good understanding of a range of communication impairments.

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 04/02/2023 13:41

PragmaticWench · 02/02/2023 15:01

Hi, My DS is 8 and has a mild lisp, the same as my father. DS also has an unusual mouth issue where every few minutes during speech, he seems to suck excess saliva back in his mouth. His lips are drawn back, teeth together, middle of the tongue raised to the roof of his mouth and he sort of sucks back saliva quickly. It's not a swallowing or gulping action, more in the mouth.

I've never commented on it to him but am aware that friends might start to as he gets older. Does it indicate something might be structurally wrong?

He'd probably benefit from an ENT assessment to rule anything out. It could be a coordination issue instead? Or maybe just an unusual habit/tic?

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 04/02/2023 13:42

GordonGarden · 02/02/2023 15:29

@SpeechandLanguageTherapist This is an amazing thread! I've learned so much - thank you!
My question is about a sort of stammer but at the end of words, not the start. DS turned 3 in November and will say things like "let's go to the park...ark...ark...ark", "maybe we...ee...ee...can" etc. Sometimes he goes a bit spacey when he's doing it. I haven't noticed any real pattern in when it occurs, but it's probably only once or twice a day, maybe a little more if he's frustrated. Never if he's singing, which he does a lot!
I did have an ill-advised Google and everything mentioned ASD or Tourettes but he doesn't have any other behaviours to indicate either of those. Can it also be part of typical language development?

How long has the stammer been present? A short period of stammering (less than 6 months) can be developmentally typical in toddlers. Is there any stammering in the family on either side?

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Rebootnecessary · 04/02/2023 15:01

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 04/02/2023 13:40

To get onto a postgraduate programme you need relevant experience via a job in a related field. Most people on the course had worked for at least a year (most longer) after uni as a SaLT assistant, teaching assistant, care worker (elderly/disabled) etc. The courses are very competitive and most will have this level of experience. She'll need to show evidence that she's worked with SLTs and/or people with communication needs, and has a good understanding of a range of communication impairments.

Thanks so much for the advice.

Commonsensitivity · 04/02/2023 15:34

Commonsensitivity · 30/01/2023 17:25

What would you recommend for an 11 year old with high frequency hearing loss whose "s" sounds are still quite slushy. Will we ever get them sounding crisp?

Are they having speech and language therapy regularly?

They were until quite recently via school. But the teacher signed them off as she felt we were overdoing it.

GordonGarden · 04/02/2023 16:14

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 04/02/2023 13:42

How long has the stammer been present? A short period of stammering (less than 6 months) can be developmentally typical in toddlers. Is there any stammering in the family on either side?

@SpeechandLanguageTherapist Thank you so much for replying!
He's had it for around 6 months. But in those 6 months we've moved house, he's stopped co-sleeping, we've had a second baby, and he's started nursery! So they've been very stressful for him and I'm wondering if that's exacerbating it.
My brother stammered mildly for over a year as a child and grew out of it without any interventions, but his was at the start of words which seems more typical.
Is there any reason to be particularly concerned about stammering at the end of words?

Zozo1990 · 04/02/2023 16:34

Thank you so much for providing parents with your time and expertise. My 3 and half year old is speaking in 4 word sentences. He understands instructions, follows stories and songs. He can retell a story but sometimes doesn't have the vocabulary so isn't very clear. He misses off the first syllable of words sometimes that are 3 or 4 syllables long. He calls a banana a nana stillness, for example. He also, doesn't pronounce some letter sounds in words, but when I teach him phonics he can say the sound correctly. I've noticed my neice and other children, especially girls, his age are a lot more clearer than he is and talk so much more. I am reading everyday to him and have started phonics so he can pronounce things better.

Is there anything else yoy can recommend? And would you say 4 word sentences is okay for his age?

Thank you.

Zozo1990 · 04/02/2023 18:14

Sorry just to add to the above he is actually saying 8 to 9 sentence words actually.

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 05/02/2023 14:31

Emerald237 · 02/02/2023 20:30

Hey,

My child is 2 1/2. Was diagnosed with glue ear (unsure when it started - possibly 12 months ago). She got grommets about 5 weeks ago, so far more response to sounds such as banging or clanging, but not as much progress with talking or listening.

She has no conversational speech, communicates most through actions. She is a placid and affectionate child.

How can I help her speech, I have been trying to follow the guidance, however, when I am narrating and talking actions and things to her she almost doesn't seem to be listening and a lot of the time and doesn't repeat back to me. I feel at a loss.

Any tips for helping with building the gaps in receptive language would be greatly appreciated.
Thank You

It sounds like she's made good progress so far over a short time period. If her hearing loss was quite severe she will need to develop all of her auditory discrimination skills for environmental and speech sounds before she starts learning language. I suspect you will have a lightbulb moment where things click for her, but it may be a little further down the line. Just keep doing everything you're doing 😊

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 05/02/2023 14:34

Tbird5 · 02/02/2023 21:15

Hi
My 2 year old (just turned) has a speech delay. Have been told it's due to him being a bilingual child but judging with your answers on some of those questions that might be a bit not true? He is saying words in both languages but only about 15 words. Some words he has stopped saying altogether. Some of the words he was saying last summer, he doesn't say them at all. Should I be worried and what can u do to help him get those back?

Bilingual children can be a little delayed right at the start of learning language, but bilingualism doesn't cause ongoing language difficulties. It can take them a little longer at the start to make sense of the languages they are hearing and separate them out. When counting words we count them separately in both languages, so if the child can say 'milk' and 'leche' for example, that would count as 2 words. Has he had his 2 year check yet? If still concerned then you could ask for a referral to SaLT.

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Tbird5 · 05/02/2023 17:23

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 05/02/2023 14:34

Bilingual children can be a little delayed right at the start of learning language, but bilingualism doesn't cause ongoing language difficulties. It can take them a little longer at the start to make sense of the languages they are hearing and separate them out. When counting words we count them separately in both languages, so if the child can say 'milk' and 'leche' for example, that would count as 2 words. Has he had his 2 year check yet? If still concerned then you could ask for a referral to SaLT.

Thank you so much for replying.
Have been counting each word like you say, tbh wondered if I was doing it right. Glad to hear I haven't. He's not had the 2 year check up, hopefully soon. Think my main concern has been him not using previously learned and used words. Hopefully he will again, soon. Thank you

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 05/02/2023 20:31

Jk24 · 02/02/2023 21:22

Thank you for this thread. My ds is 3 next month and is pretty much non verbal. Has said words and regressed. Sometimes says mama, dada, no etc. He has social communication disorder with speech and language delay. In your experience do children like my ds gone on to talk/ communicate well?

Honestly it's really hard to say. Some children will go on to make amazing progress with their language skills and communicate well verbally. Others will have persistent language difficulties, and others will use non-verbal methods of communication into adulthood. I'm afraid it's extremely hard to predict and all you can do is seek all help available to you and do everything you can to support your child to communicate to the best of their ability (verbally or non-verbally).

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 05/02/2023 20:35

student26 · 03/02/2023 15:55

Hello, my three year old son is speech delayed, as in, the only word he can say regularly, or at all, is ‘yeah.’ Speech and language here tell me they only work with parents and the nursery, not with the child themselves at this age. We are in Scotland. He is now on the list for speech therapy, which as I’m told, is just support for the nursery. What actually can be done for him? The drop in appointments are few and far between and don’t ever tell me anything new! I don’t know what else to do. I’m a teacher and my first child speaks very well ( she doesn’t speak for him as everyone tells me) so I’m at a bit of a loss of anything different to try as I do know what it’s like with children with speech problems. What would you recommend, please? His other communication skills are amazing and we have no concerns for autism, etc. Thanks so much for this thread.

At this age a lot of work is through parents and nursery implementing strategies, with direct therapy often saved until children are a little older and have better attention and listening skills. Strategies that can be implemented 24/7 are likely to be more effective than a therapy session once a week, particularly at this age. Have they given you strategies that you can implement at home?

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 05/02/2023 20:36

Commonsensitivity · 04/02/2023 15:34

Commonsensitivity · 30/01/2023 17:25

What would you recommend for an 11 year old with high frequency hearing loss whose "s" sounds are still quite slushy. Will we ever get them sounding crisp?

Are they having speech and language therapy regularly?

They were until quite recently via school. But the teacher signed them off as she felt we were overdoing it.

The teacher discharged? Not the therapist? That sounds a little unusual.

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NoFitStateMum · 06/02/2023 07:15

Do you work with children who are neurodiverse? My question is about what I think is termed echolalia? My 10 year old often repeats what is being said on TV programmes he watches - sports commentary or factual programmes especially. Is this likely indicative of an ND diagnosis? We have been referred for ND assessment but not seen yet. Thanks

Commonsensitivity · 06/02/2023 07:31

The teacher discharged? Not the therapist? That sounds a little unusual.

They were having SALT through school. The teacher felt that we were almost finding problems where there were none. However the s sounds are still very slushy.

w0rkschmurk · 06/02/2023 18:01

Such an interesting thread! This is a career I'm interested in, so I was wondering, if you work in the community, how many visits to different places/individuals do you make in a week, typically? What size of area do you/your colleagues cover?

Seasonofthewitch83 · 07/02/2023 11:41

Hi OP!

DD is 2.5 and was never a chatty or noisy baby, was late with speech e.g didnt say Mama until she was closer to 2.
Her actual vocab is on track - can sit with a picture board book and she will know and can say every word (generally nouns). Her understanding is good. It feels like she KNOWS the words but doesn't use them. She will learn to say something, use it for about a week and then stop for ages unless prompted.
She has no general functional language other than 'Up' and 'Yes' and 'No.'
She does not generally speak outside of the house - even in a quiet calm environment where she is perfectly happy and not at all anxious.
We are on the waitlist for SALT but its long......wondering at her age if we should go private.

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