Can I please just take a few minutes to whimper and grumble?

[KaySamuels]

Thanks

I am fed up of changing shitty messy underpants as ds refuses to sit on the toilet/potty/potty chair. He stands up to do wees and has been dry for months, has excellent control and knows when he needs a wee or a poo.

I am at my wits end with him and don't know what to do! His key worker at nursery today said he seems genuinely petrified of sitting on the toilet, and asked if anything had happened to scare him but there is nothing! Aaargh!! Just put a load on with a million pairs of yucky pants!

Oh yes and he has started wetting himself at nursery too. Only goes for two and a half hours, has a wee before I leave and still manages to have an acciedent.

Hmmm... ok then, well pants are clean, ds is sleeping like a little cherub and my mum actually provided a sympathetic ear so all is well in Kay's household again for now!

I am going to try not to take the lack of replies personally, ho hum.

Oh dear Kay. Didn't see this one earlier (too busy putting on washing load full off shitty messy pants!!! DD1 is the same at the mo. Not afraid of the toilet (uses it or potty for wees, but just seems to be happy to poo anywhere else). She actually pooed on her play table on Monday. Still haven't fathomed out why this was preferable to the potty. . .

LOL at playtable - think they are sent to try us sometimes! Least we are not alone I guess....hope they grow out of it!

It is getting hard for me to not make an issue out of it though TBH, but don't want him to see how irked I am getting so came on here to rant!

I know. part of me just wants to tell her off but i know that's wrong. hey ho tomorrow is another day. If i have a breakthrough moment i'll let you know!!!