Does anyone roll their eyes when people who have a lot of help complain about the help they get???
My fiancé (and father of my son) brother has 2 kids. He sends them to nursery 2 days a week (1 child has free hours) and they have family to care for them on the other 3 days - including my fiancés mother.
He constantly moans that his mother should help more (he lives away) but yet she is the reason they don’t have to pay a 3rd day of nursery for their kids? Then moans about his MIL. Who has them 2 days a week.
Me and my fiancé have to send DS to nursery 4 days a week. My mum has him one day and we’re so lucky for that. But in all honesty I’ve used a lot of a/L to cover those days as she hasn’t been most reliable bless her. So it’s looking like either the whole week in nursery or I drop a day. Financially either way is shit!
so does anyone just get wound up when people moan about their help? I would feel so lucky if we only had to send DS to nursery for 2 days a week!