My twin girls are 3 Years and 9 months old. From 18 months - 3.5 years it was the hardest 2 years of my life. It was so so hard, going out with them was horrific especially around 2 as they’ve just go off in different directions. At home they climbed over everything, was into everything they shouldn’t be etc and I was just in a cycle of one tough day after another.
but I’m here to say that life has changed beyond recognition. They spend their days playing with each other, it’s a pleasure to take them out, very few tantrums now.
If you’re going through a tough stage, hang in there there is light at the end of the tunnel. I’m sure we have more challenges ahead with different problems to consider but for now I’m enjoying this new stage