Hosted the in-laws and wider family on Christmas Day and at one point I was breastfeeding the baby in the bedroom and FIL nipped in to use the en suite loo.
I’m assuming he didn’t see me on the way in as he didn’t say anything and left the toilet door open (hard to explain room layout but i was discreetly positioned at dressing table on other side of main door).
After he finished he definitely did not wash his hands.
He saw me on the way out, simply said a breezy hello, but headed on downstairs.
When I came back downstairs a few minutes later he came over and took the baby from me for a cuddle.
I really didn’t know how to say anything so didn’t but every time he held DS’s hand and touched his face I felt so grossed out.
It’s not actually that surprising as I’ve previously noticed he wees on the loo seat without cleaning it up and has even previously admitted to only brushing his teeth ‘a couple of times a week’.
What would you do - ignore it and assume DS will touch loads of germy things anyway or is there a way of addressing it? Very awkward though!