Positive stories of having two+ boys

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I'm having my second little boy and final baby. I've had a lot of negative responses to telling people the gender. My dad went on at length about how he was disappointed for us because having two boys is such a nightmare (they'll be loud and boisterous and fight with each other) and a girl would have been so much easier. Most other people have said that now I'll need to have a third (I won't be) or some other form of commiseration. Lots of comments about how boys grow up and leave you and basically don't give a shit about you as an adult.

Please can I hear your positive stories of having two or more boys? As little ones or teenagers or adult children. Mine will have a 3 year age gap.

All siblings can fight! I have Ds, Dd, Ds. And older dsd and Dss. All the ds's get on really well despite the age differences but dd basically just about tolerates all her siblings and dsd is very disengaged but gets in well with her full brother - from a distance although they used to fight like demons when children. It's more personalities than sex /gender in my opinion.

My two boys are my dream family. They are like a dream. Kind, cuddly, funny, loving. I have no idea what I have done to deserve them.