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DS4 is exhausting

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DashboardConfessional · 15/11/2022 16:58

I currently work PT, 3 days a week, and DS starts school in September so I have approx 10 months left of looking after him on my own 2 days a week.

I hate it. We meet up with mum friends on one of the days but we have all usually had enough of the chaos by lunchtime and they all have a younger child who needs a nap. The rest of the time, he's no longer content with the walk into town/go to a café/the park routine but I also can't afford to keep throwing money at it. Today I've managed via £9 for Soft Play and more cash for baking ingredients, but have also had to manage a massive tantrum, him refusing to let me join him doing Lego and running off in Sainsbury's over a toy (I'm mean, apparently), and him breaking into DH's office in the middle of a client call while I went to the toilet. The absolute best thing for his energy levels and sleep is being at preschool.

I don't want to just manage though. I want to enjoy it! Is everyone else savouring the last year before school just lying? What am I so shit at entertaining him?

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Beamur · 15/11/2022 17:02

Do you have a park nearby? Somewhere to scoot or run about?
He sounds like he needs to burn off some energy.

DashboardConfessional · 15/11/2022 17:05

I do, a big one, but it has absolutely poured today (the drain outside our front gate has burst). We went out on his bike the other day and it was 3 hours of me dashing after him which worked for some of the day. Then it was "Where are we going now?"

I dunno, maybe it's the time of year. We have Longleat and NT passes but they're both currently closed Tuesdays.

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DashboardConfessional · 15/11/2022 17:09

The most annoying thing is that when DH has him for the day he will sit and watch a Disney film or spend hours doing a Lego model! 😆

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