Sorry for the rant now but just need some advice on how to handle a situation. I had a baby 8 months ago and my brother also had a baby a year ago. Me and my husband live a couple of hours from our families and we probably see them once a month or so. Every time we meet up with my family I feel that my baby gets ignored or doesn’t get the same attention as my niece, it’s really starting to bother me. Obviously my baby doesn’t feel any of this at the moment but I worry as she gets older she’s going to start feeling the difference. I’ve talked to my husband about it and he says it an issue to deal with another day but I can’t help but feeling really sad about it. I’ve tried talking to my mum about it but she just says it’ll change as they get older and my daughter gets to spend summer holidays etc with them. Am I over reacting? Seriously considering moving home to be closer to our families to see if this helps the situation, but worried as we moved away to save our relationship as it was a rally negative place for us to be.