I have 3 kids aged 5, 6 and 10.
My 5 and 10 year old are reasonably well behaved, they will do as I say even if it sometimes done with a grumble.
My 6 year old daughter on the other hand is extremely hard work. She listens to absolutely nothing I say, she has a meltdown whenever she doesn't get her own way. She purposely agitates her sister and brother.
Honestly, she is making me really miserable as my days are just filled with tantrums and arguments and trying to tiptoe around her to not trigger any arguments.
I work long hours and I want to enjoy my days off with the children but right now it's really hard to do as she just causes massive friction with everyone.
Obviously it's not her fault and I've gone horribly wrong somewhere but I don't know how to fix it ðŸ˜