Hi, I'm looking for some advice or to chat to anyone who has been in my situation.
I have a son who I share with my ex boyfriend we used to be civil and have an ok relationship when it comes to our child. However I found out I'm expecting my second child with my new partner and since he has found out I have notice a significant change in his attitude towards me and things have now escalated. He currently has my boy as I agreed he could take him on holiday which I have no problem with. But now that he is back he has taken my son to his new gf house and has been ignoring my messages and efforts to contact him as I need my son home due to an unforseen family emergency. I had been trying for several days and got no response at all. So today I went and politely asked if I could have my son which then his gf decided she wouldn't let me and even refused me the opportunity to see him. She then proceeded to call me every name under the sun all while my ex stood there and said absolutely nothing. I could hear my son in the background which made it all the worse for me so I did the only thing I could think of and that was to call the police only to be told that they will not do anything due to there not being anything from the court. My ex has now removed me from everything so I can not contact him. I have reached out to his mum who has said she can't get hold of him but I'm not sure I believe that and it was the last option I could think of.
I'm really lost on what to do. My son lives with me and always has so I don't understand how they wouldn't help. It's really got me stress and i haven't been well recently so this is the last thing I needed. If anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it as I just don't know what to do!