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Dirty Dancing for 12yo girls ? Okay?

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ChillinwiththeVillains · 13/07/2022 14:34

DD and friends having a sleepover. All Y7, nice articulate girls who seem to have ALOT of conversations about sex and pregnancy etc.. Culturally diverse but sheltered backgroundsAt single sex school but usual themes of gay, bi, pan etc. come up in discussion. And also Roe v Wade.
I am trying to think of a film that will engage them but not perpetuate too many stereotypes or focus too much on bodily perfection.
I thought Dirty Dancing has a lead who achieves something (the jump) through practice and determination, stands up for what she thinks is right and has some nice coverage of class issues too. But is also cracking film. This is sadly not so true of eg Pretty Woman which I rewatched recently and thought was really icky.
I also thought that they may not have seen Speed and that prob isn’t as controversial but doesn’t seem too reductive of the roles of girls etc.
Would you mind as a parent if I showed either of these? Thanks for any opinions.

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SpiderVersed · 13/07/2022 22:14

Dirty Dancing is great, but I’d leave it a year or two because the illegal abortion thing where Penny in in genuine crisis is pretty intense.

EllieQ · 13/07/2022 22:15

RobinHobb · 13/07/2022 21:58

Bend it like beckham?

Second this, especially as the Women’s Euro 2022 is on at the moment!

Bring It On and Clueless are both good, too.

One of my favourite 90s films was Pump Up The Volume with Christian Slater, but that was a 15 and probably isn’t suitable for 11 year olds.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 13/07/2022 22:16

What about Mean Girls? Much more up to date. Good themes. Safer choice.

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BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 13/07/2022 22:17

Yy to other suggestions on here such as Clueless, 10 Things I Hate About You and Leagally Blonde.

Also, Save the Last Dance

UWhatNow · 13/07/2022 22:17

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BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 13/07/2022 22:18

Ooh 17 Again is also a good one. Chandler Bing has a midlife crisis, falls into the river and comes out as Zac Efron aka himself back at 17 but in the current day. Very good.

notsureaboutthatreally · 13/07/2022 22:42

My year 7 12 year old just had a sleepover and it didn't occur to me that I would be in charge of putting a film on for them or taking their phones off them. We have parental controls on netflix, they'd have laughed me out of the room if I put on a film for them like my parents did in the 80s.

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