hi i wonder any of you can offer any advice... my lo is 2.3 and has just recovered from a really nasty sickness and runs bug that lasted 2 weeks and since then when i change his nappy after a poo he screams and cries and keeps asking for it back even going so far as trying to rip off his clean one and trying to go and get the dirty one from outside. i bought him a toilet insert and tried him on that which he was happy enough to try but alittle bit anxious when i asked him if he wanted to try do a wee or poo on the toilet[ i must add i have tried a potty but he freaks even if he sees it under the stairs] and said no and got off so popped him a nappy on but it really is every time he does a poo i don't understand cos he even comes and tell me he 's done it and wants me to change him but then he gets so distressed any ideas anyone