I have another post regrading my partner who i am unable to have contact with as i accused him of DV. I know how serious DV is but not to make excuses I am heavily pregnant and had a moment of madness where i called the police and accused him of something that didnt happen.
www.mumsnet.com/talk/legal_matters/4578636-can-cps-police-charge-without-a-victim-statement
I had ICPC meeting today and although i have held my hands up and tried to explain that i wrongly accused him to punish him (not fair i know but i am being honest now) they have still decided to put my unborn on Child Protection Plan. OH is on bail so i cannot contact him and probably wont speak for few more weeks.
I was given the report from Social services in advance but i was never provided with the reports from midwife, police, school, health professional. I have now requested these as i want to appeal the CPP. I am more than happy to engage with theeir services but i really feel a CPP is unnecessary as unborn is planned and not at risk. No previous cases either side.
How do i appeal to reduce to Child in Need or for them to close the case as i have admitted to police also the reasons behind my allegations (childish i know but i have learnt from this)?
Also the decision for CPP seems like it was already made before the meeting because the midwife who i have met once for 5 mins (newly assigned to me) made a decision a CPP is best because of DV but she doesn't know the history and is basing her recommendation of a report from others.
There was no DV in our relationship and i am very ashamed that i said there was but punishing my unborn and OH for my mistakes is unfair.
any advice?