Hi,
Just wanted some advice. Me and my husband (together 12 years, married 6) haven’t been getting on for a while. Our relationship has always been a bit up and down but I thought in recent years we were stronger. We had a baby in Feb 2021 and I’m expecting in 4 weeks. Recently he’s said he doesn’t want to be together, I’m manipulative (don’t know how as I haven’t gotten anything from him!), he doesn’t find me attractive physically or mentally (I did ask this question so he answered honestly), and today he said I’m the most horrible person he’s ever met. He’s said give it two months after baby born and he will move out, he just wants the baby here and stuff and be around to help in the early days. Neither of us have been perfect in the relationship, but I never thought I would be 36 weeks pregnant, with a 16 month old and divorce being thrown my way. Just wanted some words of advice, I don’t know how I will cope financially or mentally or physically with 2 under 2 alone.