Hi everyone I have a 1 year old son and a 5 month old daughter from she was born shes been a very fussy crying baby after first being told colic and ending up in a&e on the 14th of april we found out she has cmpa since she got put on nutramigen milk her stomach problems seem to have stopped
But she crys most of the day she can be fine for maybe an hour then just crys no matter what we do play with her cuddle her feed her take her outside walk with her put her in her swing play music white noise nothing works she just crys until she tires herself out and falls asleep it's awful tho as she can cry for up to am hour at a time I have started to have to put her in her moses basket and walk into next room and k stand and cry because I feel so helpless I hate seeing my baby cry but nothing I do stops her
Its affecting my 1 year old son as he now crys when she does because he knows we go to her when she crys
Its affecting my relationship with me bf as were both physical and mentally exhausted
We take turns sleeping downstairs with her just so we can get some sleep at night once it gets around 3am shes up every 30 mins takes maybe an oz goes back sleep I've tried getting her take whole bottle she wont and she wont dream feed
My mum and partners mum take her sometimes for a night but its getting they cant cope aswell
I feel like I'm failing as a mum I cant even settle my own baby or make her happy I just dunno what to do and it's getting me so down
Has anyone had a baby similar any tips for helping her or is there something wrong
All advice would be great tia