Was talking to a friend who is sahm in the day like myself, her son is 18 mths and mine is 17mths. She asked me if I have any time to do housework in the day. I was quite surprised as although I'm not a clean freak I do the basics like washing up, tidying, hoovering, bit of cleaning, general housewok etc. She doesn't find time to do hardly anything but then she said she spends a good few hours just sat down playing with lo. Am I wrong in that I don't sit down for long periods of time playing with lo, I tend to get on with things in the house but take 5-10 mins out here and there to play with lo. He seems happy and is developing well and his speech is excellent. Maybe I am lucky that he is quite content to amuse himself and he tries to help me out as I'm doing things. I suppose I just felt a but guilty that I am not dedicating enough time to learning and play but then it would do my head in to leave the house in a mess all day while I did it. What do you do?