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I love my kids. They make me smile and proud.
Sometimes though, they drive me nuts. Actually, a lot of the time they drive me nuts. Like I have no time for them and they are nothing but an embuggarance. I wish they'd just leave me alone.
They mither for food and sweets a lot.
They prod, poke and provoke each other.
They trash every room, indeed even little corners I've just managed to organise or tidy. We live in a shit tip, no matter how long I spend clearing up & cleaning.
My son is 6.5 My daughter is 4.5.
I've started to lash out, really visciously. Tonight, I smacked my son across his face because he;d pushed his sister when he'd walked in the room. Then I started pushing him and saying "How do you like it eh? How do you like it when a bigger person pushes you around?"
Then I sent them to bed and refused to kiss my son good night. I was still shaking with anger at him for deliberately being a little shit.
My daughter pushes my buttons as well. She snaps and snarls and is deliberately rude, to gain attention. She whines and whines until my head feels like it's exploding.
I've read the parenting books. I know the right way to discipline. I just seem to have lost the ability to do it. I'm irrational and short-fused when ever the children are around.
What the fuck is wrong with me? Why am I like this?
I went to GP and he gave me fluxatine (sp?) - basically, prozac. It zonked me out so I stopped it.
Where do I turn to next. What shall I do?
I'm married and my DH helps with the children but he's quite untidy as well - simple DIY jobs for example, always end up with every tool and all the associated crap, just left lying around, waiting for me to clear them away. So that just adds to everything.
I need answers Mumsnet, or at least a place to start resolving this.
Any advice?
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I'm so viscious towards my children. I feel so much venom towards them.
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RedMist · 07/01/2008 22:55
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hatrick ·
08/01/2008 18:42
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