Help needed- unplanned pregnancy

[Anon2603]

I’m 100% sure I’m pregnant (too early to test) unplanned we already have 2 kids. My dh doesn’t want another kid. I feel I’m to blame for the pregnancy- too long to go into here. Is it bad if I just get an abortion without telling him. I just feel it’s my own fault and if I hadn’t done something last week I wouldn’t be pregnant so I need to sort it myself

Erm, you don’t need to go into details but evening if it was ‘your fault’ does that mean you need to keep it a secret from him? Having an abortion is an unpleasant experience (to say the least). It’s also very painful and the pain goes on for hours. How are you going to have the abortion and the aftermath with out him knowing? How will you explain all the pain and bleeding? Just food for thought I guess x

The word “secret” is not your best friend here. Definitely don’t keep it to yourself. It will just eat away at you. A problem shared is a problem halved, you need real life support and your partner deserves to know. Have a chat with him x