Hi everyone I just had my second baby 11 days ago I had a baby girl by c section I also have a 1 year old son who was born by emergency c section
My bf is amazing and when I had my first c section I couldnt do anything and he did everything for me and our baby
Since I had our baby girl he just dosnt seem as interested in her he holds her does the odd fed and we take turns at nights but it's like he dosnt want to do it
I just feel like hes distant with me and her
We both wanted this baby she was planned but its just like his heart isnt in it
I just dunno how to feel our baby girl is a cryer and it is hard but it's only been 11 days it's like he just dosnt have the time for her or me and like hes just brushing off I had major surgery because I can do more this time and he just dosnt seem interested in me anymore
I want to bring it up but I'm sort of worried what his response will be I love him to pieces and his always been an amazing daddy and still is with our son
Anyone else's partners took awhile to adjust to new baby what would u do
All advice be great Tia