Wahhh I raised my voice too much today now I feel bad

[giraffes2021]

3 year old soon to be 4 year old and a 21 month old.
My day off today with them both and my god it's hard I feel like I'm constantly saying no or stop or please don't do that and it gets to the point where I'm like arghhhhhhhh give me strength even getting the youngest dressed is like dressing a wild animal!

How do people not raise there voices and loose there shit!!!!!
Curious to know hahaha

Don't sweat the small stuff. Unless they're putting themselves in danger, let them play...as long as they're not actively damaging themselves or others or furniture etc.

When they get annoying, walk away for 5 minutes. There's a moment...ONE moment when you make the choice to lose your shit or walk away. Once you recognise that moment....you make the right choice and walk.

I remember finding the moment...it's an awareness in the midst of anger..."I can lose it now or walk" and you just choose the right action.

@FortunesFave thank you that was good advice!
It's hard tho isn't it with tiredness and in that moment but I just don't want to become a shouty mum haha
I am going to try