DD1 is now 2.5 and has been dry during the day since July. She uses a potty at home and toilet when out & about with me and will always ask to use it. However at the childminders she will not ask to use it and will just say "Don't need it" when prompted.
Childminder recently decided to stop using the potty and use the toilet instead...and this hasn't helped.
DD1 was originally holding back pooing there, then stopped drinking water and now doesn't like eating there.
She's happy the rest of the time and is with DD2 - but just seems to not want to ask the childminder. She then says she has a poorly tummy when she gets home and does a massive poo.....how can I let her see that it's okay to ask the childminder, like she does at home? Or should I just say to the childminder to continue prompting?? Any suggestions??