Just wondering if other people like doing spontaneous meet ups and play dates with children or do you only do things that are pre arranged in advance?
On a personal level, I like spontaneous things sometimes as I suffer with anxiety and depression and some days can be really bad. Planning things in advance can feel really overwhelming. So if I'm having a better day, I'm more inclined to message a friend about doing something on that day. However, I'm often hesitant about this as I feel like I might be stressing people out my suggesting last minute or sometimes I worry about getting rejected by friends (silly I know).
So would doing something spontaneous bother you? A lot of my friends have such an organised schedule of things planned. For a bit of context, I have a 3 year old, a 3 month old and moved house 3 weeks ago, also started part time work again, lol so things are a bit crazy my end!