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Would you leave a 5yo in a car alone?

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Ellerehj · 10/09/2021 20:37

My ex partner left my 5yo DS in the car alone while he went into a shop (for Non essentials I might add) Long enough that he was crying when he returned and DS has mentioned it to me a few times and it seems it upset him. He doesn't have a great concept of time but he said he think his dad was gone around 20 minutes.
Do you think this is okay? I was completely outraged. Am I right to feel this way?

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SuperCaliFragalistic · 10/09/2021 22:25

20 mins is too long imo but I often leave my children in the car alone for 5 mins or so to pop in a shop or to drop one of them at an activity. The difference is that they know where I am, that I won't be long and they don't mind. I've never come back to find they are even slightly bothered by me being gone.

idontlikealdi · 10/09/2021 23:08

No way. I can't lock the doors in our cars without turning the alarm so they could merrily let themselves out. That is properly shit parenting.

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