Any ideas on how to get him to make the move to standing up? Even though he's started school he still is quite content to go to the toilet, not the urinals. My husband says he himself only learned to use the urinal just before he started school. But after being used to the toilet for 3 years now how do we convince our son to make the change now? How did we end up this way? eep. I guess I thought he'd just pick it up watching his dad and other boys, but he's not had a go for ages now and seemed put off by the risk of spills.