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trevthecat · 30/06/2021 20:37

Hope someone can help, my eldest children (11 and 8) have no contact with their father. It's been 8 years. I do not have any contact information for him or his family. They are not interested in the children being on the planet. There are other factors involved including DV which I don't want to go into.

I have recently got married, been with my husband for nearly 7 years. He is the only father figure they have known. We also have a child together. The elder two have expressed their interest to change their surnames to my husband's. This was there choice. Has anyone done this without the other parents permission?

Again, contact is not possible.

Many thanks

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dementedpixie · 30/06/2021 20:39

Might have to do it through the court if you can't get permission from him

trevthecat · 30/06/2021 20:41

Would that be through family court? Should I contact them?

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dementedpixie · 30/06/2021 20:43

www.gov.uk/change-name-deed-poll/change-a-childs-name

There's info here

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trevthecat · 30/06/2021 20:43

Great thanks, should add for anyone else commenting, the father is on both birth certificates

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