IM SO ANGRY

[bonkerz]

Soryy am sounding off on here.

Have just had a text off DHs exp who says that we HAVE GOT TO pay half towards dhs dds baptism which is on sunday.

Normally i wouldnt mind but dh didnt want her baptised he just went along with it as its what the exp wanted. As far as we are concerned SHE wanted the baptism so SHE should pay for it! If she had asked earlier we probably would have given her a small amount but shes asking for £40 and only told us today when the Baptism is on sunday!

Am so cross, my dh and i do alot already for his dd and pay over the odds in maintenance and just cant afford to give moneyu like that!

Am i being too harsh or does anyone else agree its a cheek!

rant over

Thanks

well dh had a long chat with ex and we now having sd fron the tues after xmas right through till 9th jan! RESULT! We are also having sd for boxing day next year but it has been agreed we can have sd for xmas in 2006 and 2007, she has also been warned if she continues to be unhelpful and horrid then we will go through the courts to get the access we deserve written down and legal! If we do this she will also get alot less maintenance through CSA then she gets at minute!

Fingers crossed i wont be resurrecting this thread again in a few weeks with another rant! Thanks everyone for your support and advice and stories! It helps to know others have been there and are at the point im at!! IM NOT ALONE!!!

I'm so pleased for you. Hope you have a fab time.

Excellent bonkerz!!

Well done you . What a horrible situation. I wouldn't be surprised if your dh's exp is not only jealous of you, but is regretting leaving your dh. Lets hope that things get better with the passage of time.