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13 year old wardrobe choices....Help!

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BBOA · 05/06/2021 15:09

My DD has just come back from a shopping trip with friend and has bought a really tacky, tie die , ribbed, t shirt material pink dress, with kind of puffy bust area. She’s a big , tall girl with a C cup. It’s a clingy dress and just doesn’t look flattering or something a 13 year old busty girl should wear. I suggested it was maybe more of a beach dress than an every day dress, trying to be diplomatic but I failed abysmally. In her eyes everyone wears them and I’m being unreasonable. Anyone got any advice? It’s so difficult to know what to say. I’ve already upset her. I would add I’m really pretty relaxed but this is not a good look for her at her age.....

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WaterBottle123 · 05/06/2021 23:58

@Chelyanne

You think women should censor themselves?

Your poor daughters

ShinyGreenElephant · 06/06/2021 00:05

Men will always leer. My DD12 and her friends were having a dance off in the front garden earlier and someone shouted "fitties" out of a car at them. They're all 12 and look 12, skinny little things with no boobs. Some men are just disgusting and that's not your daughters problem or something she should be restricting herself for. Teach her strategies to deal with gross men and let her wear what she feels comfortable in

Chelyanne · 06/06/2021 10:57

[quote WaterBottle123]@Chelyanne

You think women should censor themselves?

Your poor daughters[/quote]
Yeah you should

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ProudPolyGradSingleMum · 06/06/2021 11:01

Let her wear it. She’s not responsible for perverts.

She will only buy it on the sneak and take it with her in a bag anyway.

pinkyredrose · 06/06/2021 11:01

Yeah you should

You should. . what? 10:57Chelyanne?

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