AIBU... to think twice about planning another play date?

[soulful22]

I know kids can be kids and when our kids are at school we can't see everything that happens. But I have brought my DC to have a play date with a child , who I'm starting to not like his behaviour. He's saying things like "you're stupid" "you're boring " "you're annoying". Pulling my DDs hair. Pushed my DS and pulled off his hat and threw it on the floor.
I don't want my DC thinking it's ok to play like this or that I'm taking them to these play dates and this is what they have to put up with. I told the child not to say things like that and tell my kids to stand up for themselves (tell him to stop etc)

AIBU to not want to arrange another play date?

Just want to get different perspectives on this situation. As I know some would say, things like this happens but I don't see what good could come from continuing to bring my DC to play with a child who doesn't play very nicely.

I think it depends partly on the age. At 4 I would probably leave it six months and try again. At 8 I wouldn't bother again. If you like the parent then arrange something in the evening or while dc at school.

Do try other people for play dates. They can be a great opportunity to find out about your dc's class mates and for them to develop friends out of school.

I took two at home pregnancy test that came out positive on Wednesday March 31st and they both came out positive. I then went to the doctors office the next day on Thursday April 1st to get a confirmation I took another urine test and it came out positive. The doctor predicted that I was around 4 weeks. I had very light bleeding that then started to come on to a little bit a a flow not to much like a period though. For the past few day I have been feeling very nauseous so I was seen today on Saturday April 3rd at the ER due to the fact I couldn’t hold down fluid or solids. I told them I was pregnant and showed them my doctor confirmation they proceeded to do a blood test and they said it came back negative. They told me to test writhin 3-5 days. I have been very confused if anyone could help me out it would me a lot. What could be the reasoning for this.?

Sadly too the child has possibly been hearing that criticism from someone about them.

@JaydenB07082020 you need to start your own thread.

@Cattitudes I did wonder this as well. Why does he say this a lot. Two separate occasions he has said this a few times to my kids