Hi!
Sorry - long post and first time posting as a FTM!
I'm looking for some advice..
My baby is almost 5 weeks old and for the past two weeks has only had two or three dirty nappies. I'm aware this can be perfectly normal but when I told my health visitor about it and mentioned that she has a painful cry at nights like she's trying to fill her nappy she asked me if I'm using a prep machine and told me there's theories that the hot shot isn't hot enough to kill the bacteria in the formula and can cause upset stomachs. She suggested making a couple of bottles from the kettle which I did and we did then get a dirty nappy, but another few days then passed without another one (note we also tried warm bath, tummy massage, bicycle kicks.. so may have been a combination of things, or it may have just been time to go!).
I looked in to it myself and found that the theories surrounding the prep machine are that they can cause constipation, but my baby isn't constipated as when she does fill her nappy it is the right consistency. I then read about infant dyschezia where a newborn basically hasn't learned to relax the correct muscle to pass a poop yet and will eventually have a nappy explosion and the symptoms of this sound exactly like what we're experiencing. The general advice is that this should pass in a few weeks when baby learns how to "go".
I said all of this to my health visitor and she said we probably haven't noticed the difference by only doing a couple of kettle bottles a day and to try not using the prep machine at all for a week. I'm a bit frustrated as I felt like she didn't really listen to what I thought (this was over the phone due to Covid) and I really don't think it's the prep machine causing the problems and it's really convenient for night feeds, but I said I'd do it.
I'm looking for advice on;
- If anyone has experience of infant dyschezia
- Or if anyone has experience of upset stomachs with prep machine
- How I could use a bottle warmer for night feeds? I have a tommee tippee one but I'm soo confused - do I add boiling water to the bottles before bed then reheat just the water then add the formula? Would this be hot enough to mix with the formula? Or am I supposed to make up a bottle of formula with boiling water before bed then reheat it in the warmer? Help!!
Any advice here would be greatly appreciated!!
Thanks! x