Putting off second ...

[Lucy267]

Hey,

So I have one baby well toddler now (2.5yrs) and I know we definitely want another. I keep putting it off and my honest reason is because a lot of my friends are just having their first now and I don’t want to be the first to have two / finished with pregnancy and they all get pregs again. Is this ridiculous? I know it certainly sounds it! It’s driving me mad 😫 I’m my own worst enemy I’m sure!! Anyone feel the same / have any advice? Thanks xx

I had my first about a year before most of my friends so that meant my second was born before most of them had a second; to be honest now he’s a year older I feel a bit smug that I’m done with the newborn/little baby part as for me that’s quite a challenge. I did also make some friends who have two though as I found that I wanted to chat to people having similar issues of balancing the needs of 2 children.