Ex’s mum

[Zippy17]

Hi everyone!
My ex from whom I have not long separated , has been leaving my 11month old with his mum which he agreed not to do . She walks with a stick due to a double knee replacement 4 years ago and a broken hip a year ago. She is 77 and continues to suffer falls. She has a disabled badge and a falls alert on her wrist. I have been advised by my health visitor not to let him have the baby at his mums until there is a legal/ formal decision about this! I am worried that whoever makes the decision says it is ok for her to look after him alone!! Does anyone have any experience of this?

Exes mum

This sounds so difficult. I imagine the biggest problem you have is trusting him that he won’t do it. Has he said why he is leaving the child with his Mum? How old is your child?

My youngest is 11 months. Crawling around likeable rocket. No he does t say why he goes out, he has then when I work which is only 2 days a week!! So I think he should mange ti stay in! He doesn’t work he’s furloughed!