We've been 'training' since June, as we wanted to wait until she was 'ready' and we had another baby in April.
Gradually results good, and things seem to be going well at home and most poos now on the loo. At nursery (all day, 2 days a week since 4 months old, so used to going), still having up to 8 accidents a day.
Nursey think it is 'attention' problem. They have started a record book to see if there are any flashpoints in the day, and have tried stampers and charts, but she just will not go on their loos. I have tried taking in her seat from home, but don't think it is their seats: when she is with me, she will go on any toilet.
I've asked her why she doesn't want to go at nursery, and she just says 'I just don't!'
She is happy to go with Grandma and Daddy too, and at playgroup (2 mornings a week) does not have accidents, but will not go to the loo there either.
Help, I'm finding it really tough not to get angry/upset/frustrated and don't know way forward?