How would you handle this? DS 13 has taken my card out my bag and used it to buy games online. After talking to him it sounds impulsive. He's not generally a rebellious or nasty kid. He spent about £50.
He's suffered with depression in the past and can be tough to talk to. I don't want to come down really hard on him, make him miserable and not know what's going on in his head. But I also want him to understand he's never ever to steal money from me. He obviously has to pay the money back.
He has adhd too. Some behavioural issues but mostly a very sweet, slightly immature boy.