ok, so dd2 who is 4 is about to start nursery tomorrow. She will be going 4 days a week from 9-12.
I am homeschooling my girls. I have found that dd1, who is 5 has a very good attention span. Whilst dd2 will only concentrate for about 10 mins before getting bored. She then ends up playing on her own. She is an extremely sociable and funny girl and I feel that she would benefit from the social interaction whilst I am busy with my other dd.
The problem that I have with it is this;
DD1 never went to nursery, she was always very shy and clingy, though thankfully she is much better now. She would have been one of those children who cry and cry when you leave them. And thast would have upset me too much.
I dont want dd2 to think that I am just trying to get her out of the way so I can have more time with dd1.
We have taken dd2 to look around the nursery and she really likes it and cant wait to go back. But i'm a bit worried that she might look on it that I favoured dd1 more. Which is completely not the case. The girls are just so different and I feel that warrents different treatment.
I'm rambling I know. I have flu and am not very articulate at the moment. But I hope you can see my concerns. Am I just being silly, dd2 isn't gonna resent me for this in the future is she.
Thanx