Dh ex wife has text to say ss doesn't want to come because i shout at him.

[Bloodsuckingmissyhols]

So now i'm really sad. She's on her way around now as its our turn to have him for my dh 4 days off. Last time it was my dd who was 18 months at the time was hitting him. I'm the first to admit i find it hard but i bring him up like He's my own. The last time he was here he really enjoyed himself and he came shopping with me to choose new clothes. He's had hard time recently with his mums relationship breaking down and She's about to go away with work for few days so don't know if He's saying it so he stays with him. I feel like breaking down in tears.

Do you shout at him is my first question?

My sympathies. My eldest used to tell my ex what she thought she wanted to hear, therefore she said she didnt' get hugs or have any playtime or enjoy being with me. She knew her mum would get upset if she had a good time with me. Children also do tend to play the adults off against each other.

Stick with it, it's worth it.

No. If He's naughty i tell him off but no different to my dd

Thanks hd. Hubby just finished talking to ex. And ss seems ok. No tears or anything

Thanks hd. Hubby just finished talking to ex. And ss seems ok. No tears or anything

Thanks hd. Hubby just finished talking to ex. And ss seems ok. No tears or anything

Thanks hd. Hubby just finished talking to ex. And ss seems ok. No tears or anything