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Controlled Crying Questions

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PeacefulInTheDeep · 16/07/2020 10:14

DH and I are at our wits end with our DD's sleep and in the next few days will be trying controlled crying. No judgement please - I know CC isn't popular on MN but we're out of options.

I have a couple of questions which I can't seem to find the answer to, so I'm hoping someone here might have the experience to help me.

  1. DD currently sleeps overnight and for about half of her naps in the bedside crib in our bedroom. The rest of her naps are in the carrier or pram. Do we need to let her have some naps in the cot in her room to get her used to it as a sleep environment before we do CC? Or do we just put her in there the first night we do CC?
  1. I've seen conflicting advice on whether to do CC at bedtime only or whether to do it for naps too after the first night. What are people's experiences of this?

I want to make this as effective as possible for everyone involved, so any advice will be greatly appreciated. I've posted in both Sleep and parenting for maximum traffic.DH and I are at our wits end with our DD's sleep and in the next few days will be trying controlled crying. No judgement please - I know CC isn't popular on MN but we're out of options.

I have a couple of questions which I can't seem to find the answer to, so I'm hoping someone here might have the experience to help me.

  1. DD currently sleeps overnight and for about half of her naps in the bedside crib in our bedroom. The rest of her naps are in the carrier or pram. Do we need to let her have some naps in the cot in her room to get her used to it as a sleep environment before we do CC? Or do we just put her in there the first night we do CC?
  1. I've seen conflicting advice on whether to do CC at bedtime only or whether to do it for naps too after the first night. What are people's experiences of this?

I want to make this as effective as possible for everyone involved, so any advice will be greatly appreciated. I've posted in both Sleep and Parenting for maximum traffic.

OP posts:
Lou2120 · 18/07/2020 19:32

My daughter is the same age and her routine is something like this...

8am wake up
10.30 nap
11am wake up
1.30pm nap
3-4pm wake
7-8pm bed

She also wake up 2-3 times a night for a feed. I've also got 2 older children who both slept through at this age so it's hard to not want her to but I've had to lower my expectations also. There are also times where it just all goes out the window! Very stressful so you have my sympathy x

FourPlasticRings · 18/07/2020 20:41

Yes, it can take a little work to help teach baby to link sleep cycles

You can't teach them to do that. It's developmental. It'll happen on its own.

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