DS2 is now 6 months, DS1 is 3 and a half, I feel I'm just coming up for air after a tiring but satisfying time, we've been getting on well. But it is hectic, and wondered how other MNetters enjoy life as a bigger family, any tips for making the chores easier and the time for fun larger? my relationship with DH has taken a bit of a hit, we need to make some time for us, as well as getting as much relaxed/fun time together as a family..