Hi I'm a mum of a 1 year old and a 6 year old girl. I am really struggling with my 6 year old she is behind academically but is so clever in other ways which I tell her all the time. She is very negative about everything says she rubbish at everything but my main concern is they have been doing tests at school and she has completely freaked she struggles with any school work that she has to do independently but is fine and can do it if someone is sat next to her over the years I feel like her anxiety or her willing to try something is getting worst and worst. It breaks my heart the states that she gets herself into. I wouldn't say she is naughty but when is that way out can be negative towards everything I try to be positive around her and tell her that I'm not bothered what mark she gets aslong as she trys her best but nothing seems to work. She used to be such a positive happy little girl but feel like I'm losing my daughter more and more and dont knownwhat they do I've spoken to her teachers they agree with me but dont do anything to help me tia