Just paying in case anyone with an external perspective can see things better than I can.
DS has been getting increasingly ‘whingy’ when asked to do things, especially getting dressed in the morning. Also, since he’s been back to school since Christmas, teachers are reporting not listening, having to go into Amber for behaviour etc - pre Christmas he was star pupil, really settled, super polite and helpful, often in Gold. Nothing has changed in routine/family life except having a lovely Christmas holiday together...he’s also developed spots all over his cheek which seem to get worse/better by the day..I’m thinking about taking him to the doctors and asking for a blood test to see if something is going on..