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7 week old won't sleep on his own

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BlairBelkova · 09/01/2020 14:14

Hi. My 7 week old won't settle unless he is being held by me.
Every time I put him down, he screams which makes sleeping hard - for both of us. I've tried putting a shirt of mine in his Moses basket with him but he knows the difference. I've also tried swaddling but he fights it & then gets his arms and legs out.
When he's in his Moses basket for a nap or the night, he fights asleep and cries. I feel like I'm doing a bad job cos all I hear from people is "mine was fine from2 weeks" or "mine sleep through and have done, on their own from day one"
I'm a first time mam & I really don't know what to do. My parents suggested letting him cry it out and I tried leaving him to cry for a while and he did fall asleep but then woke up not long after and carried on crying.
I won't co-sleep due to being on medication for bipolar disorder & to be honest, the thought of co-sleeping scares me.

Does anyone have any advice?

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Booboostwo · 27/01/2020 20:01

Hopefully he will be happy in the next to me crib! Fingers crossed for you.

By the way, sleeping on a pillow is not advisable under safe co-sleeping guidelines.

Psychologika · 27/01/2020 20:02

My 7 year old won't...

00100001 · 27/01/2020 20:09

She put him on a pillow??

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Momandbaby · 04/04/2020 21:50

You need to change his habit,, trust me time will pass. co-sleeping is not dangerous, you can use the bassinet for this purpose reviewspack.com/bassinet-that-attaches-to-bed/

Flippyflo · 04/04/2020 21:56

@BlairBelkova

Hiya!

I’m a new mum too! ( I’ll probably get slated for this.. and in no way shape or form recommending it)

But I had some issues with baby sleeping, noticed she would sleep on me fine, week four she was really unsettled with sleep .. I realised it wasn’t me that she was happy sleeping on, it was being on her stomach!

She’s slept from 9pm-4am from 4 weeks she’s now 9 weeks. In fairness she will only sleep like this now including naps. If she’s on her back she’ll only last for half hour but on her front she’ll sleep forever.

We have angel care monitor !

Maybe give that a go ! Good luck & be kind to yourself x

Lifesabeach86 · 04/04/2020 22:00

She put him on a pillow!? That is incredibly unsafe OP

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