I'm shaking as I write this, I cannot take anymore of my kids bedtime behaviour. They are 9 & 8 years old. 9 year old has ASD, 8 year old neurotypical but going through a stage of worrying about everything and refusing to sleep. He's currently awake in his room making loud noises. I cannot deal with this anymore. I've tried to talk through his worries and I've now spoken to the school who are going to support him. I'm exhausted and utterly fed up. He only wants me at night, not DH. He's rude to me and has been kicking me. I need some advice, thank you