Hello, I posted this in April last year!!
But I didn’t get any response and still feeling the same way so thought I would repost my last tread.
I would appreciate any advice you can give me as I have couple of weeks now to make my decision and stick to it!
Mumwhoneedsadvice
Hey,
So a little about me, I am 31 and have 2 children.
One daughter who is 10 (from a previous relationship)
And a 4 year old son.
I got married to my husband in 2017 And since then I have this ache for one more child.
My daughter has no contact with her biological dad as he walked away when I was 12 weeks pregnant after we had just brought our house and planned her.
My husband has brought her up since she was 3 and they are very close, most people who doesn't know the situation Often assume them to be blood related.
After a very painful break up whilst I was pregnant with my daughter it was so amazing to have a supportive partner who made my pregnancy a breeze. held my hand through my labour looked after me after as I was in a lot of pain.
My head is saying 2 is enough, one of each how perfect Is that!
We have a good life a nice home, low mortgage I work in the local government have done for 12 years so my job feels secure. I only work 16 hours a week.
Financially another baby wouldn't be too difficult but it would be tighter and we would have to be careful.
My heart is saying how I would love to go through pregnancy and baby again together as only done that part once With my husband.
My husband feels like we’re done but he has that little thing too saying go for it!
My head is a mess I have been feeling like this for couple of years now any it hasn’t gone.
Anyone help or give me some advice.