Tell me about your lovely son?

[Scarlett555]

Just found out I'm having a boy 💙 and while delighted, I'm struggling to imagine what it will be like parenting a son.

I know this is ridiculous as I knew there was a 50/50 chance of baby being a boy.

We are a same sex couple and already have a DD. All his cousins are female and our friends with kids have all have girls so the little guy will grow up surrounded by women.

Please tell me about your lovely boys? They aren't too different to girls right? I'm a bit scared!

I have a DD6 and a DS3. DD is fierce and independent and although she loves a snuggle, she’s happy playing on her own for hours. She doesn’t really need me that much except to feed her and buy her things! She’s very like a cat.

My DS is just a little love bug. Much more dog like. He’s so sweet and follows me everywhere - always making me imaginary cups of tea, brings me my favourite cushion to sit on, even if I’m in the middle of hanging the washing out upstairs!

Before I had him I couldn’t imagine what having a boy would be like either. I thought he’d be all fighty and trashing the house with pretend swords and stuff. But he’s properly adorable. I’m so glad I got to experience having a son.

You love them just exactly the same amount as your daughter, but in a different way. It’s hard to explain. You’ll see what I mean when your boy gets here.

Honestly I felt the same when I found out I was expecting ds. I already had a dd and for some reason expected dc2 to also be a girl.

I had the exact same rush of love for ds that I had for dd and I cant believe I worried even for a second. He is now nearly 5 months and my god I adore the boy. On a daily basis I get utterly overwhelmed by how much I love him, how happy he makes me and how god damn gorgeous he is.

Funnily enough my husband was the same, nervous of having a boy as he felt he knew what to do with girls. They have the best bond already and I would say its come easier for him this time than with dd actually.

Ds has this super cute, cheeky personality, really smiley and loves being kissed and held and tickled and smoochchied.. god we love him so much. He has brought so so much joy to all our lives and we just adore him.

I will point out that he isnt an "easy" baby. He has allergies and reflux and doesn't sleep well at all, but I still couldnt love him more if I tried. You will be fine!!

When I found out I was having a boy I felt scared, like I didn't know how to look after a boy because I only have nieces, no nephews.
But from the minute he was born that fear went away. He is 6 years old now and does typical boy things - football, rugby etc but also has a soft side. The other day he asked me who my granddad is. I told him I never had a granddad as they both died before I was born. His reply was "I'm sorry about that" and he came over to put his arm around me. He melts my heart.

Congratulations!
My boy is 2 and he's incredible. Caring, kind, affectionate, cuddly, cheeky, generally just delicious. Wouldn't change anything about him, he's perfection.
I now have a DD (only a few weeks) and even though I did hope for a girl I'm now nervous what it will be like when she's bigger as all I know is a little boy..

Congratulations! I have two lovely sons. I’ve brought them up (hopefully) to be gentle, kind and open minded.
My eldest is 9. He is quite popular amongst his mates (all boys). He’s quite sporty, fit, fun and funny. He’s also extremely thoughtful and sensitive. He was worried about a girl being bullied in his class, so reported it to the teacher and let her join in his games. He has a very strong sense of right and wrong and justice. He loves nature, knows everything about it and wants to be a ranger when he grows up. He loves reading and writes lovely stories. His favourite colour is pink - he’s determined not to be sexist!
My youngest is nearly five. He loves Batman so much. He can’t quite write his name yet, but he can write ‘Batman’. Most of the time he thinks he is Batman. He acts out long, epic adventures where he is Batman beating the baddies and rescuing people. He calls this pretend play ‘watching my films that I haven’t seen yet’. At school he’s a lovely boy. His teacher thinks he’s great - apparently, he will play with anyone. We’re having a bit of a problem with him hitting his brother sometimes, but I think he’ll grow out of that. He gives the best cuddles in the world.

My DS is so laid back! He likes cuddles when he's in the mood, but happy to entertain himself for the most part. He is a complete and utter delight. His big sister is high maintenance in comparison!

I'm from a family of mainly girls so didn't have much experience of dealing with boys either. My DS stole my heart the minute he was born. He's 14 now and an absolute sweetheart. Still tries to get on my lap for a cuddle.. looks after his sister, helps around the house and is a joy to be around, teenage hormones aside. I didn't see fundamental differences between him and my DD from a gender point of view but she is way harder work, much more complicated to deal with!

I have two boys. They are the light of my life. One is quiet and reads, the other is more boisterous. They are sweet, thoughtful and adorable. Now ten and thirteen. We get on well, do things together, have fun and respect each other. I have not had girls, I am certain there are differences but nothing negative. Good luck with your baby boy.

I have two DSs and also two nephews, there are no other children in the family yet. I think it’s normal to feel strange about having a boy, as something different to you, and that’s nothing to do with being disappointed. I wasn’t disappointed at all but it still felt strange.

My oldest DS is 5 and so lovely. He loves cuddles and anything to do with animals. He also loves cooking, shopping, dinosaurs and superheroes. He tells me every night at bedtime that he loves me ‘the whole world’ and wants to be a vet. He can be a bit too sensitive.

My younger DS is 2 and a lot more boisterous. He loves trains and cars and making a lot of noise! But he also loves cuddles and dolls.

Of the four boys, they are all different but all lovely. Congratulations OP and you will be fine.

The main difference to be aware of is the risk of getting sprayed with wee during nappy changes!

My son is nearly three. If I say ow (usual clumsy stubbing my toe etc) he will rush over, kiss me, look me in the eyes and say "that better mummy?"

This week I made him lunch and told him I would have rice. He came back in the kitchen, asked me where my rice was and I said we don't have any, but don't worry. He stroked my leg and said "don't worry mummy, I go to shop and buy you more rice, okay?"

He loves cuddles, he comes into my bed every morning and strokes me and kisses my face when he thinks I'm asleep. He invited the dog to his birthday party.

Congratulations on expecting a little boy. They are lush.

Mine is only 20 months but he loves mummy cuddles and is very cheeky, cute and super affectionate. He's also very chilled out and was a very easy baby. He's amazing and your little boy will be too OP, you'll see!

Boys are very different to girls!

I have an 18YO.

And he gives the best hugs (more affectionate than my DD!) he's protective of me and will always jump up to help carry the shopping in or lift something heavy for me. He gives sensible advice and has a wicked sense of humour- I've never laughed with anyone like I laugh with him. He puts songs on in the car that he knows I'll enjoy!

I think boys are harder work as babies, toddlers and primary age (they just aren't as mature and capable as girls) slightly needy. But when they fall out with a friend it's over and back to normal in an hour (not like the drama with girls!)
As teens my DS was much easier, less of an emotional rollercoaster and more respectful of their mums!

Boys need a strong male role model who is constant in their life, it's probably the most important thing. My DH has didn't the most time and had the biggest influence over my son, although I am probably still closer to him.

*spent the most time

I currently have my lovely son next to me, home with a poorly ear.
He’s loving, caring, very affectionate, gives me lovely cuddles.
I have two boys,, they are both the same, they are so much fun, and there is never a dull moment. Boys are great.
-(but they are really messy )

My DS is 20 now and away at university. I miss him terribly. He's quiet and keeps himself to himself quite a bit, but he's a great cook, he loves animals, he likes to spend time with me playing card games and watching TV. He still gives me hugs and I love him to bits. You know what they say...mums and sons...

I have three girls and a boy. I was really worried about having a boy, but it truly was unfounded. He is the kindest, sweetest, easiest child ever. He's 12 now and nearly as tall as me. He nicks my shoes! He tries to curl up on my lap for cuddles still, it's hilarious! He plays rugby, makes music, loves 'call the midwife', he's just the best! Good luck, you'll love every minute of him!

11 year old ds here. He's been an absolute dream child so far (although I have yet to hut the teen stage ). We are really close. He's very loving and caring and has never been boisterous. He struggled to fit in at primary school when surrounded by really boisterous boys, but he's found his people at secondary. That's not to say he doesn't have lots of energy though and has always been involved with various sporting activities. He sings in choirs too.
I don't have a daughter for any comparison, but I know lots of people with girls and I would say that if you rein in the behaviour while they're young (not be dismissive with "oh it's just boys being boys") then the later years are much easier than with girls. With any child though, they just need clear boundaries, consistency, routine and love.

I have a dd and a ds. For the first year it was just identical tbh. However as their personalities developed the differences showed. I've no idea if it's down to their sex or just individual characteristics.

My son is a lot more loving than dd day to day. He is also a lot more likely to go off and play alone in his room with his toys. He likes to help around the house with chores. He is very content to just bumble around doing whatever needs doing (food shop, petrol, etc), less tendency to get bored. He is more into puzzles and construction type toys than dd. He quite likes being out doors but not as much as dd who would live outside given the chance. He is a shy and reserved til he gets to know you then is bloody hilarious.

I adore dd equally in different ways. But my son is like my heart walking around.

Oh OP, you and your family will all love your boy so much!

I have a 14 year-old daughter and an 11 year-old son. They are both smashing young people and have always had a close bond to each other. DS is more affectionate than his sister, and I think a bit more needy. He wants more of our time than DD does.

Both children are reasonably intelligent, but DS has always seemed a lot less complicated than DD. He is straightforward and more predictable in his moods and behaviours.

Your son will be a wonderful addition to the family.

Honestly don’t worry, I felt the same after having one dd I wanted another girl and couldn’t imagine having a boy. I had a boy second time though and honestly he is amazing, I’m so so glad I’ve got him. He’s the cutest sweetest boy, so loving and kind, tells me he loves me all the time and that I’m the best mummy in the world. Gives me the loveliest cuddles and kisses. He’s amazing and your son will be too. Enjoy the rest of your pregnancy and don’t worry at all, you will love him so much.

My boy is literally my life! He's 2.5, and amazing in every way. He obviously has his toddler moments, but on the whole he's loving, cuddly, funny & clever. You'll do a great job OP 🥰

My ds is now 15. He has his stroppy moments but is still lovely underneath it all - I still catch glimpses of it when he is asleep. He's hidden all his cuddly toys in his wardrobe, but wouldn't let me have a cull the other day. I love that he also sits with the oldies to chat when I have family over.

I also have 2 dds (also teens). I wouldn't say they were different because of their sex, more to do with their personalities.

My DS is gorgeous..... He is kind, thoughtful, hardworking and brave......can messy but I'm working gin him! He is now 6ft 😁

My DS is 4 and so loving. Sometimes when we are walking down the street he just stops and tells me he loves me.

It was all girls in our family before he came along - and he loves being fawned over by women